Monday, June 29, 2015

Jim

Jim Woods 1937-2015
He lived alone.  He lived quietly content, in good health and able to help family if ever necessary.  His bank account, he once casually mentioned, was kept at an amount more than sufficient for him to be counted on in an emergency.  Several months ago he seriously considered buying a new car. The decision to forego the purchase was predicated on “I really only drive to shop for groceries.  Don’t do that nearly as much as I used to.  I’ll save my money just in case.”
      However his children didn’t need him and it was quite apparent were confident he didn't need them.  Visits and calls were not part of their lives.  Their cherished mother, his wife had died many years ago after a brave battle with cancer.  It would be ten years and several months after her death, his life would end.  This month, he died alone.
      Neighbors in his Senior Citizen building realized he had not been seen.  Entrance was gained to his apartment. He would never again be seen alive on this earth.  The discovery was so long after he took his last breath that decomposing was well on its way.

Two days after it was held, his children, whom he was extremely proud of, sent this photo taken at the private ceremony.  A U.S. Air Force Veteran, Jim was interred with military honors in Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery in St. Louis County. 
   
For many years, my twin brother was a recovering alcoholic.  Throughout his life, he was a precious friend of mine. 

Thank You Dear God for James Franklin Woods.  
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You are invited to read vignettes about Jim in my award winning memoir, 
Black Star Girl, published in 2010.


Sunday, June 28, 2015

AMAZING

Same sex marriage is legal in every state of the United States of America.  I remember decades and decades ago assuming, if it ever happened, it would be long after I left this earth. 

Until recent years my thinking – civil unions with all the benefits of marriage would be the solution.  Then, various States, one by one, made same sex marriage legal.  It became clear marriage to a beloved one, even though that person was the same sex, would become the law in this entire land.   And it did, this week. The Supreme Court on Friday, June 26 voted 5-4 our Constitution gives gay couples the right to marry.  WOW!

Admittedly my thinking is crowded with a number of thoughts on what’s ahead. (My church has work to do on their guideline documents.)

The definition of marriage has changed.  How many centuries from now will yesterday’s dictionary be worth hundreds of dollars at antique shops?

And, will I live long enough to know children who throw temper tantrums screaming, “Why don’t I have two dads?  I’d rather have another dad, than you!”   


I’m laughing.

Monday, June 22, 2015

Did HATE Strike Again?

Nine beloved persons who were shot dead
Wednesday, June 17, 2015 in church
where  love, acceptance, tolerance,  respect and understanding are taught.










Deplore HATE,
Call for attention to HATE,
Hold symposiums on HATE.
Perform an autopsy on HATE.

HATE hides and festers,
Virtually a buried word  
Ignored
Until it explodes into an action word.

Face dastardly HATE.
Learn all about it.
HATE kills.
Discuss HATE.       
                                -M.L. Stith                                            -                                                                                                        

Examine HATE, as profoundly as love, acceptance, tolerance, respect, and understanding are encouraged.