Thursday, September 29, 2016

Out On A Limb


It’s a sick feeling,     
Doing your best,
Being what God,
Wants you to be,
You think.

When,
There you are,
Out on a limb,
All alone.

Everyone sees,
No one helps.
Disaster ahead,
They think – and,
You think.

Agonizing,
You pray.
 Then,
 It’s another day.
 And - you’re okay.

                         -m. l. stith



Friday, September 9, 2016

Labor and The Money Crisis

My father's labor gave us much
Back in the ‘40’s, my father, a hard and diligent worker had a beautiful home built for his wife and family.  As tough as life was for a Black man then, I dare say a working man of any color, these days, could not do what he did then. The money is not there.

Yesterday ESPN Sports commentators were arguing over team owners giving a football player a contract for $44 million; “he deserved $60 million”.

Headline news everyday draws our attention to issues involving millions, even billions of dollars.  Big money deals anticipated, sought after, and agreed to are front-page news in all sections - sports, entertainment and business.

There's no big money talk involving the working person.  In fact, I’m fearful the lack of money softly panics a large portion of the U.S. working population’s sense of well-being.  Stress is the byproduct.

The cost of living continues to rise.  The pay scale for work performed doesn't seem to increase. A living wage is barely assured in many job categories.  

Resourceful families find a way to survive.  I don’t hear complaints.  Jobs are not plentiful. They are grateful.  #1. Someone holds two or more jobs. Then bills are paid.  Or, #2. At least two in the family work a full time job. The family has basic needs; shelter, food, clothing, medical care, heat, light, telephone, AC, school supplies, furniture & fixtures, computers/tablets, and WiFi, and meet their tax obligations.  Will those families have money saved for retirement, for emergencies?  I’m doubting.

Observing this modern phenomenon, i.e., any one (or combination of individuals) absent not home because they must work, has me pining about the sacrifice of important family interaction time.  

No meals together.
No time to meet with teachers.
Who oversees homework; readiness for tomorrow?
No time to share activities (games, school events, etc.)
Only rushed attention to issues of concern.
Too tired to seek spiritual enrichment.

Corporations and organizations increase profits with marketing strategies that tantalize the publics desire for expensive ‘product’ – entertainment, hard goods, technology, furniture, wants, not ‘need’.   In recent days, via TV,  a toddler came into our consciousness, strolling beside her mother .  The commentator said the child was in a $3,000 dress.   I don’t personally know of anyone who would want to dress a child in such an expensive garment.  However I understand such a news item suggests a bit of extravagant spending to those who do not have extravagant income.  The “I want” mentality is easy to cultivate.  It keeps the economy elevated while wages and salaries remain at a level barely meeting the “I need” reality.

Is there a money crisis on track to obliterate the middle class and middle class values?  There is when wages and salaries are virtually stagnant.

How can we improve the situation?  Well, we can listen to the political candidates and vote for those who understand the crisis.  Simultaneously we can reach out to assist one another.  Perhaps money management clubs dealing with household expense management.

Our church is involved in a program that helps by tutoring young people.

 In a Facebook post, I was happy to learn about a pre-Labor Day Sunday Sermon.  The Pastor had his congregation bring in  ‘tools’ used to do their job.  Those tools were placed on a table and blessed. The Pastor’s message also reminded the congregation our hands are tools and he blessed the hands of each.   Pastor said,  God has given us many gifts & when we combine the gifts we have, with the tools we use, we can do wonderful things for people & make a difference in people's lives”. 

Thank you, Pastor Lagos.   (Plainville UMC - GNJUMC)