Thursday, November 17, 2016

Reality

This morning began with a troublesome glitch.

My folic acid pills toppled into the sink.  If I chose to turn on the water and wash them away it would be a mere $14 into the drain (a prescription – milligram not offered over the counter).  Thus, money wasted; yet not more than my meager resources could handle.  But no, I’m a problem solver; turning my back from anything valuable, possibly salvageable, is not in my DNA.

Therefore, my morning was immediately improved.  My mind was detoured from troublesome facts flying around in my brain over which I have no control . . . president-elect issues, of course. 

Employing diligent patience I’ve saved most of the medication.  God is good to me.  More evidence He will stay by my side as my intellect emotionally maneuvers these troublesome times, from which my stubborn sense of right struggles to find solace.


Keep in mind God is also blessing America.

Monday, November 14, 2016

Gotta' Get It Together

The nation has a new president-elect.

I’m angry recalling his nasty, mean campaigning.

Forever it seems, he baited President Obama’s ire with unbelievable nonsense questioning his birth certificate.

News conveyed his insult of the father of a Medal of Honor patriot . . . and snarky commentary regarding the dead hero’s mother.   Their young military man sacrificed his life for America, and his never wavering response was to insult them and their culture.

He demeaned women, I think.  He met the negative reaction to reports of his invasive liberties toward women with cavalier disregard for the inappropriate behavior, even piled on more demeaning comment in support of his actions.

To me, he was a shockingly disrespectful, uncouth campaigner.

NOW, he’s the winner of the election process.  

These days I am challenged to forget all of the emotional terror he caused and respect him.  My common sense mentality rankles at this responsibility to do so.

They say he will change; latest interviews give a glimmer he may.  If he doesn’t ease up on a few dire promises, millions will be devastated.  I want to believe he will bring all of us, this world, this planet a better presidency than his campaign rhetoric unrelentingly assured.

Yes, the election is over yet his campaign strategy continues to feed my emotional unrest.  How much was a strategic threat?  

Today I continue to work through ANGRY.   I wait for the latest news born from deliberations led by a powerful celebrity who was marketed, for sure to the masses, as thoughtlessly divisive and self-serving.
It’s another America’s turn to serve this diverse nation. My spiritual undergirding assures God is in charge.   Thus it will be good – painful perhaps, but good.

Monday, November 7, 2016

Will You Vote?

2016’s Presidential Election Day is tomorrow, November 8th,     6 am – 8 pm in my neighborhood.

History may be made - and, it may not.  

My candidate’s opponent is not receiving my vote for several reasons.

For sure, I wouldn’t want a child of mine, any child, even an adult to emulate what I've learned about him.  A good role model – not!  I couldn’t vote for him.

I’m one of many millions who don’t escape paying income taxes.  It saddens me to think, if elected, he could decide how to spend what we pay to help run the government.  I couldn’t vote for him.

And, it seems a number of his largest support groups have ingrained biased views that have persisted throughout my lifetime.  They see me and others coming, and decide who we are, who we can be and what we should be.  It’s a painfully offensive reality.  I surely couldn’t vote for him.


  
I will vote for her.   I’m impressed with her commitment, stamina and record of service over the years on behalf of others.

God Bless America.

Sunday, October 30, 2016

Keep on Praying

Kids today are like no other.  Our children may not say funny things as much as they give amazing insight.

It was in a Bible School class, I was trying to get across the idea, the power of praying in the face of danger (Daniel in the lions den).  From their comments, it seemed the boys were determined not to buy into the concept.  Finally, a 10 year old shared for all to hear,  “my grandmother prays for me.”

Not giving up, I asked them to focus on times they were in trouble.  After a brief moment of quiet, an 11-year-old girl told how a kid met her in the school restroom to beat her up.  I suggested, “and you prayed for God to look out for you?”

 Hesitating, thoughtfully she said, “no, I didn’t pray; my girlfriend back in our classroom was praying for me.”

Learnings:  we must keep praying for others.  They are counting on it more than we imagine.


Thursday, October 6, 2016

Election Campaign Season 2016



Belief in America
Truthfully,
Not shaken
Before.

These days - yes
Too many words
Not nice nor wise
Puzzle agonize.

How could he?
How could they?
I’m scared,
Don’t dare have my say.

No news,
The proverbial
The for sure
Good news.

November 8
The crucial date
I’m thinking
Wise people vote.

I pray.

                    ---M. L. Stith

Thursday, September 29, 2016

Out On A Limb


It’s a sick feeling,     
Doing your best,
Being what God,
Wants you to be,
You think.

When,
There you are,
Out on a limb,
All alone.

Everyone sees,
No one helps.
Disaster ahead,
They think – and,
You think.

Agonizing,
You pray.
 Then,
 It’s another day.
 And - you’re okay.

                         -m. l. stith



Friday, September 9, 2016

Labor and The Money Crisis

My father's labor gave us much
Back in the ‘40’s, my father, a hard and diligent worker had a beautiful home built for his wife and family.  As tough as life was for a Black man then, I dare say a working man of any color, these days, could not do what he did then. The money is not there.

Yesterday ESPN Sports commentators were arguing over team owners giving a football player a contract for $44 million; “he deserved $60 million”.

Headline news everyday draws our attention to issues involving millions, even billions of dollars.  Big money deals anticipated, sought after, and agreed to are front-page news in all sections - sports, entertainment and business.

There's no big money talk involving the working person.  In fact, I’m fearful the lack of money softly panics a large portion of the U.S. working population’s sense of well-being.  Stress is the byproduct.

The cost of living continues to rise.  The pay scale for work performed doesn't seem to increase. A living wage is barely assured in many job categories.  

Resourceful families find a way to survive.  I don’t hear complaints.  Jobs are not plentiful. They are grateful.  #1. Someone holds two or more jobs. Then bills are paid.  Or, #2. At least two in the family work a full time job. The family has basic needs; shelter, food, clothing, medical care, heat, light, telephone, AC, school supplies, furniture & fixtures, computers/tablets, and WiFi, and meet their tax obligations.  Will those families have money saved for retirement, for emergencies?  I’m doubting.

Observing this modern phenomenon, i.e., any one (or combination of individuals) absent not home because they must work, has me pining about the sacrifice of important family interaction time.  

No meals together.
No time to meet with teachers.
Who oversees homework; readiness for tomorrow?
No time to share activities (games, school events, etc.)
Only rushed attention to issues of concern.
Too tired to seek spiritual enrichment.

Corporations and organizations increase profits with marketing strategies that tantalize the publics desire for expensive ‘product’ – entertainment, hard goods, technology, furniture, wants, not ‘need’.   In recent days, via TV,  a toddler came into our consciousness, strolling beside her mother .  The commentator said the child was in a $3,000 dress.   I don’t personally know of anyone who would want to dress a child in such an expensive garment.  However I understand such a news item suggests a bit of extravagant spending to those who do not have extravagant income.  The “I want” mentality is easy to cultivate.  It keeps the economy elevated while wages and salaries remain at a level barely meeting the “I need” reality.

Is there a money crisis on track to obliterate the middle class and middle class values?  There is when wages and salaries are virtually stagnant.

How can we improve the situation?  Well, we can listen to the political candidates and vote for those who understand the crisis.  Simultaneously we can reach out to assist one another.  Perhaps money management clubs dealing with household expense management.

Our church is involved in a program that helps by tutoring young people.

 In a Facebook post, I was happy to learn about a pre-Labor Day Sunday Sermon.  The Pastor had his congregation bring in  ‘tools’ used to do their job.  Those tools were placed on a table and blessed. The Pastor’s message also reminded the congregation our hands are tools and he blessed the hands of each.   Pastor said,  God has given us many gifts & when we combine the gifts we have, with the tools we use, we can do wonderful things for people & make a difference in people's lives”. 

Thank you, Pastor Lagos.   (Plainville UMC - GNJUMC)