Friday, March 9, 2012

Most Tantrums are Not Cute

Today I saw the headline. The family’s vacation was abruptly disrupted due to an emotional breakdown - a temper tantrum of a two-year old. 

It happened on an airplane.   The report said they were a family of four, i.e., the parents, another young child and the two-year old.

In a sense, tantrums are a contest. In this case because of the venue, the child won the battle against the grown-ups, wouldn’t/couldn’t calm down.  As a result, there was a lot of discomforting inconvenience to go around as the family was put off the plane.

I feel sorry for the big glitch in the vacation.  But, I understand the airline’s decision.  From the wealth of experience I’ve had dealing with toddler tantrums and having flown many times, I would say it was fortunate for all that the airline could resolve the issue as they did.  The family was able to leave the airplane and be in a safer more comfortable environment.

Perhaps there should be travel insurance for such occurrences.  Maybe it is covered under the provisions for travel having to be aborted through no fault of the purchaser of the airline tickets.   I think I would check on the possibility.

Now, the tantrum shown here is cute . . . at least the picture is cute.  We were in the kitchen.  I remember when the baby boy's crying, screaming and physical histrionics were in progress; it was not at all attractive. He concluded his performance with an exasperated bend from his waist to firmly rest his forehead on the floor. It wasn't unusual for him to end his tantrums like that.  All we could do was agonize for the distressed little guy and enjoy hugging him when he was ready.

He is celebrating his birthday today.   My grandson is now a 19-year-old Eagle Scout in the second semester of his freshman year of college.  I'm remembering that was the last time he put this show on.  The temper tantrum season is not a long one.  I was sorry he didn't do it again because I always hoped to get a better picture. "Happy Birthday.  I Love You".
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May everyone have a pleasant weekend.  I look forward to returning on Monday.

                                

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