Saturday, July 21, 2012

For a Happy Life

Faith, Hope, Joy, and Love - have seen me through moments, days, weeks, months, years, and yes - a lifetime of ups and downs.

A discerning, never failing, self-confidence built upon those four emotional precepts steadfastly emboldens me.

It is all about my faith in the promise of a brighter day when despair casts shadows; continuing hope for success when challenge abounds; joy acknowledged in what is and what has been; and the comforting love I’ve been blessed to experience and share with family, friends, neighbors and strangers.

Service To Others - On my first vacation home from college, concluding one of his parenting discussions that had been introduced with him questioning how much money I thought I should earn to be happy, my father cautioned me with this observation.

“Personal happiness is best guaranteed by living a life that includes giving service to others – not through earning a lot of money.”                    
                                                             . . . . John W. Woods, Jr.

In the next decade, reading the following eloquent words enhanced the value of my father’s advice and the choices I make each day.

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, “What are you doing for others.”                                    . . . . Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Several years ago I came across the following quote.

 “One thing I know; the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve.”            
                                                                 . . . . Dr. Albert Schweitzer  
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As a kid I went to church.  My parents made me.  I enjoyed the singing, the promise of prayer and my friends.  I tolerated the long message. 

On my college campus I appreciated the Sunday school program and Sunday Vespers.  

As a parent, I introduced and encouraged the ritual of church to my children even when I was ‘too busy’ to participate.

Now as a mature adult I am more attentive to my spiritual growth.  I have an abiding faith in ‘my God’ and in prayer.  I am glad I was brought up in the church. 

A report says there are over 100,000,000 unchurched adults in America

Is the power of faith, hope, joy, love and the importance of service to others taught in the home as well as in church? 

I hope so; these days I wonder. 

2 comments:

  1. Why? It is the single word I could not let go of this morning. Overnight, many lives had been ended - the lives of many, many others, seriously altered - allegedly, by the actions of another human being. That's was the news. Presumably all were essentially 'strangers' - could have been acquaintances - the killing action being apparently 'random'. At a movie theatre in Aurora, Colorado where family, friends, and individuals had planned to be joyful, entertain themselves by going to a midnight movie, another person had planned and executed death and destruction. Why?

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  2. Actually, "Why?" was the question, the single word, that lived in my heart, mind and soul, on THAT morning, the morning I woke to learn about the tragedy in Aurora the night before. Today I'm still trying to come to an understanding I can tolerate for all the senseless disregard for life we've experienced time and again.

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